For over 20 years, I’ve guided adults through the beauty and complexity of the English language - first as a language and literacy teacher, and now, as a memoir writing mentor. I’ve also written and published two heart-centered books of my own.
But the work that truly lights me up is helping others write the stories that matter most—their own, or a loved one’s.
This calling was born from personal heartbreak.
Twenty-five years ago, I lost both of my parents, just a year apart. At the time, I was too young and too wrapped up in my own world, to ask them the deeper questions: What were your dreams as a child? What was it like to leave your homeland behind? How did you fall in love?
Now all I have are fragments - bits of conversation, old photos, and fading memories. The rest is a mystery. And the ache of what was never shared still lingers.
For over 20 years, I’ve guided adults through the beauty and complexity of the English language - first as a language and literacy teacher, and now, as a memoir writing mentor. I’ve also written and published two heart-centered books of my own. But the work that truly lights me up is helping others write the stories that matter most—their own, or a loved one’s.
This calling was born from personal heartbreak.
Twenty-five years ago, I lost both of my parents, just a year apart. At the time, I was too young and too wrapped up in my own world, to ask them the deeper questions: What were your dreams as a child? What was it like to leave your homeland behind? How did you fall in love?
Now all I have are fragments - bits of conversation, old photos, and fading memories. The rest is a mystery. And the ache of what was never shared still lingers.
I help thoughtful women like you, honor a loved one’s life through beautifully written memoirs. Whether you're writing about a parent, a partner, or even your own life, I gently guide you through the process - step by step.
Together, we choose the most meaningful stories, shape them with care, and preserve them in a way that future generations will treasure.
It’s not about writing the “perfect book.”
It’s about telling the truth with love.
It’s about creating something real, lasting, and deeply human.
Everyone deserves to be remembered. And every story deserves to be told before it’s too late.
Let’s write it - together.
IRX
“Beautifully crafted letters of misery but also of hope and love. Heartbreaking but
inspiring.”
Animal Voices
Ijin
“My favourite letter was the ‘Grandmother Bella’ one. So strong. So powerful. I loved it.”
Animal Voices
Christine R.
“Beautifully written.”
Animal Voices
Denise W.
“What a treat. You captured the voice of Black so very well and created very relatable
characters. Your book dealt boldly with a difficult subject in a way that helped us
empathize but also experience a sense of optimism that there is support to reach out to
and caring and compassionate people around us.
Thank you Suli for giving us this wonderful book.”
A Silent Knowing
Louise Jean
“I rarely find a book that does not remind me of another one or make me feel as though I have read it before, so this one was a breath of fresh air.
The use of thoughtful dialogue and vivid imagery ……. creating a compelling and fascinating read from beginning to end.”
A Silent Knowing
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I had no idea how to begin my memoir-until i found Suli. I felt overwhelmed by years of memories, but Suli gave me the clarity and direction to start.
Each session with Suli builds my confidence. The zoom calls and worksheets are helping me unlock memories and feel more at ease with writing.
Five weeks in, and I already feel ready write. I've gained tools, confidence, and a clear path to tell my story with purpose.
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